<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5855643183824743017.post2878234542712547664..comments</id><updated>2011-08-10T20:19:25.811-07:00</updated><category term='bloggy'/><category term='becoming'/><category term='animals'/><category term='published'/><category term='aubades and odes'/><category term='babies'/><category term='New York'/><category term='research'/><category term='famousness'/><category term='photography'/><category term='bulls&apos; destiny'/><category term='foodie'/><category term='books'/><category term='California'/><category term='rants'/><category term='dance movie formula'/><category term='music'/><category term='word'/><category term='fashion'/><category term='Editor'/><category term='newsy'/><category term='presidential'/><category term='Hawaiiana'/><category term='travel'/><category term='health/fitness'/><category term='MFA'/><category term='creme de la crème (brûlée)'/><category term='wingdings and time gobblers'/><category term='the arts'/><category term='marketing'/><category term='weddings shmeddings'/><category term='quotes'/><category term='tv'/><category term='film'/><category term='race stuff'/><category term='dreamy'/><category term='sciencey'/><category term='love and marriage'/><category term='wifey-4-eva'/><category term='eggs benedict chronicles'/><title type='text'>Comments on May in the Bay: Putting the emphasis and attention back where it b...</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.mayumishimosepoe.com/feeds/2878234542712547664/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/2878234542712547664/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mayumishimosepoe.com/2011/08/putting-emphasis-and-attention-back.html'/><author><name>Mayumi</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09661734935980647820</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_pVIm7KixxAg/Sqpl71NfitI/AAAAAAAABYw/uXMLuNuPx68/S220/newPICTURE.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5855643183824743017.post-9092393752932146454</id><published>2011-08-04T07:33:46.028-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-04T07:33:46.028-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I only check in here now and then, but someone rec...</title><content type='html'>I only check in here now and then, but someone recently sent this article to me. For years on my own blog, I felt like I needed to let people comment freely and not censor. But it&amp;#39;s your space- don&amp;#39;t feel bad about deleting assholes. Anyone who won&amp;#39;t say those things without identifying him/herself is a coward unworthy of commenting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://dashes.com/anil/2011/07/if-your-websites-full-of-assholes-its-your-fault.html</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/2878234542712547664/comments/default/9092393752932146454'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/2878234542712547664/comments/default/9092393752932146454'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mayumishimosepoe.com/2011/08/putting-emphasis-and-attention-back.html?showComment=1312468426028#c9092393752932146454' title=''/><author><name>Lesterhead</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14765275228101232670</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://farm1.static.flickr.com/219/445541617_fa88919c3d_b.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mayumishimosepoe.com/2011/08/putting-emphasis-and-attention-back.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5855643183824743017.post-2878234542712547664' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/posts/default/2878234542712547664' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1163493995'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5855643183824743017.post-3528347432968730848</id><published>2011-08-02T18:03:37.562-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-02T18:03:37.562-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh, my dear Mayumi. I didn&amp;#39;t read the awful po...</title><content type='html'>Oh, my dear Mayumi. I didn&amp;#39;t read the awful posts, so I can&amp;#39;t comment, but I can only imagine given the general tenor of &amp;quot;anonymous posts&amp;quot; written on the internet. I offer you lots of love, pride in being your friend, and hope that your hopes for a child someday come true, the sooner the better, with sorrow for your losses.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Much much love to you.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/2878234542712547664/comments/default/3528347432968730848'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/2878234542712547664/comments/default/3528347432968730848'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mayumishimosepoe.com/2011/08/putting-emphasis-and-attention-back.html?showComment=1312333417562#c3528347432968730848' title=''/><author><name>Robin O</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02369704951483579182</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mayumishimosepoe.com/2011/08/putting-emphasis-and-attention-back.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5855643183824743017.post-2878234542712547664' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/posts/default/2878234542712547664' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-414351480'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5855643183824743017.post-3089124697221856970</id><published>2011-08-02T13:25:50.987-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-02T13:25:50.987-07:00</updated><title type='text'>As always, I&amp;#39;m late. Still, I&amp;#39;m sending yo...</title><content type='html'>As always, I&amp;#39;m late. Still, I&amp;#39;m sending you lots of love. Having been attacked on my previous blog by two different Anonymous&amp;#39; I know how it feels to have someone use your internet space against you. That kind of cowardice has no place amongst honest, thought people. I love you and I&amp;#39;m honored that you choose to share your journey with all of us.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/2878234542712547664/comments/default/3089124697221856970'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/2878234542712547664/comments/default/3089124697221856970'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mayumishimosepoe.com/2011/08/putting-emphasis-and-attention-back.html?showComment=1312316750987#c3089124697221856970' title=''/><author><name>writesreadsknits</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01106912817017586688</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08635590543458624468'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mayumishimosepoe.com/2011/08/putting-emphasis-and-attention-back.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5855643183824743017.post-2878234542712547664' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/posts/default/2878234542712547664' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1230355632'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5855643183824743017.post-5627004125044471648</id><published>2011-08-02T09:30:51.669-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-02T09:30:51.669-07:00</updated><title type='text'>May -- I heart you.</title><content type='html'>May -- I heart you.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/2878234542712547664/comments/default/5627004125044471648'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/2878234542712547664/comments/default/5627004125044471648'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mayumishimosepoe.com/2011/08/putting-emphasis-and-attention-back.html?showComment=1312302651669#c5627004125044471648' title=''/><author><name>Emily Brisse</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03784086623918098981</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='00088526392002734968'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_QvNR3Taci3Y/TAwcI04-OkI/AAAAAAAAAEQ/1QllUXr7Bj8/S220/IMG_1486_2.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mayumishimosepoe.com/2011/08/putting-emphasis-and-attention-back.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5855643183824743017.post-2878234542712547664' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/posts/default/2878234542712547664' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-787887940'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5855643183824743017.post-1852019292889152095</id><published>2011-08-02T06:09:59.636-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-02T06:09:59.636-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I, Caitlin Leffel Ostroy, do publicly declare that...</title><content type='html'>I, Caitlin Leffel Ostroy, do publicly declare that I love Mayumi and everything she writes and when you mess with her, Anonymous, you mess with all of us writers.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/2878234542712547664/comments/default/1852019292889152095'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/2878234542712547664/comments/default/1852019292889152095'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mayumishimosepoe.com/2011/08/putting-emphasis-and-attention-back.html?showComment=1312290599636#c1852019292889152095' title=''/><author><name>Caitlin Leffel</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15397372323563736186</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qbYKjYRv64k/TMl_abJe7PI/AAAAAAAAABk/SjZJt1JBzUg/S220/photo_2.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mayumishimosepoe.com/2011/08/putting-emphasis-and-attention-back.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5855643183824743017.post-2878234542712547664' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/posts/default/2878234542712547664' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1872166834'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5855643183824743017.post-6721878923514034008</id><published>2011-08-02T05:12:16.840-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-02T05:12:16.840-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I just came across all that has been going on. All...</title><content type='html'>I just came across all that has been going on. All I can say is that your feelings are your feelings, and no one has a right to belittle them -- especially from behind an &amp;quot;anonymous&amp;quot; wall. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Keep your head up.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/2878234542712547664/comments/default/6721878923514034008'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/2878234542712547664/comments/default/6721878923514034008'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.mayumishimosepoe.com/2011/08/putting-emphasis-and-attention-back.html?showComment=1312287136840#c6721878923514034008' title=''/><author><name>Logical Libby</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00107961721466815295</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='04704837827399132945'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_puFfKD8sh_A/TKO-lYaBd0I/AAAAAAAAB-M/XI7OD86jI8k/S220/IMG_0070.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.mayumishimosepoe.com/2011/08/putting-emphasis-and-attention-back.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5855643183824743017.post-2878234542712547664' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5855643183824743017/posts/default/2878234542712547664' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1587983992'/></entry></feed>
